"Can I play with Helene?"
"sure if your chores are done and you toys are picked up."
"Ah Mom, can't she help me do it?"
"No. You have to do it your self. Come on it will take you five minutes."
6 hours! Yes 6 hours! "Later Mom can I just not do chores anymore?"
"no sweetie, if I did that I'd be a bad mommy!"
So this is the daily battle at my house! I feel like the bad mom. Like I'm always cleaning or working and never having any fun with them. My house never feels clean or put together I just feel like a lab rat on a tread mill!
I've tried the oscar the garbage bag that gets hungry and eats the toys then pukes them out once a week and they have 10 min to put them away. I've tried throwing them away. I've tried a timer. I've done it with them. I let them do it alone. All of which have just seemed to lead to tears and an almost mental break down for me! I feel like the worst mom in the world! My kids seriously HATE clean up. Xadi use to have her morning or afternoon constitutional at clean up time in nursery. Charlie throws fits at clean up time and hides.
Anyone else suffer from this? How do or did you deal with it?